
đ¨ Political Watch | From âGet Outâ to âTone It Downâ â When the Record Calls You Back
When Your Own Words Become the Opposition
In politics, the loudest contradiction isnât shouted by criticsâitâs echoed by your own past statements.
Just days after fiery remarks that sounded less like diplomacy and more like street-level bravado, Erwin Tulfo is now calling on fellow lawmakers to âtone down personal attacksâ against Chinese officials amid Code of Conduct (COC) talks.
On its face, the appeal sounds responsible. Measured. Statesmanlike.
But the internet never forgets.
Because preserved on videoâcirculating widely across social platformsâis a Senate speech where the same official thundered:
âIf you do not like how democracy works in this country, then you are free to leave the Philippinesâget the f** out.â*
That isnât a paraphrase. Thatâs a record.
And this is where the issue sharpensânot about China, not about foreign policy alone, but about credibility.
Diplomacy Is Not a Volume Knob You Adjust After the Applause
Diplomacy operates on consistency. Words uttered from the Senate floor donât evaporate after the claps fade. They lingerâespecially when spoken by someone now chairing foreign affairs discussions.
When a lawmaker moves from incendiary rhetoric to calls for restraint, the public is entitled to ask:
Was the earlier outburst strategicâor impulsive?
Was the later call for calm principledâor damage control?
And which version should foreign counterparts believe?
You cannot credibly demand moderation from others while your own words remain unaccounted for.
The Cost of âSoundbite Sovereigntyâ
National pride is not measured in decibel levels. Shouting âget outâ may play well in a viral clip, but geopolitics doesnât reward applauseâit exacts consequences.
Foreign policy isnât about who sounds toughest on camera. Itâs about protecting:
Overseas Filipino Workers
Export industries
Tourism flows
Supply chains
Strategic negotiations already hanging by a thread
A sudden pivot from confrontation to conciliation, without acknowledgment or accountability, doesnât project strength. It projects instability.
And instability is something neither allies nor adversaries ignore.
Democracy Includes SpeechâEven the Speech You Dislike
Hereâs the deeper irony.
A speech that invokes democracy to justify telling people to leave the country collides head-on with democratic principle itself. Democracy protects dissent. It tolerates criticism. It absorbs discomfort.
Telling people to âget outâ because they disagree with how democracy works is not democratic confidenceâitâs democratic insecurity.
When that same voice later urges restraint, the message collapses under its own weight.
Leadership Requires Owning the Record
This isnât about canceling anyone. Itâs about owning the microphone.
True leadership doesnât pretend yesterday didnât happen. It confronts it head-on:
âI spoke in anger.â
âI crossed a line.â
âHere is why I am choosing a different tone now.â
That kind of accountability strengthens institutions. Silence weakens them.
Because the Record Is Permanent
In the age of clips, screenshots, and archived streams, political memory is no longer selective. The public doesnât rely on recollectionâit relies on replay.
And when yesterdayâs words directly contradict todayâs position, the issue isnât spin. Itâs trust.
You canât ask others to âtone it downâ while your own volume is still echoing.