Social Fluency:

Learn the Art and Science

of Human Connection

Social Fluency:

Learn the Art and Science

of Human Connection


What We’ll Cover

Status - Breaking Down the Social Hierarchy and Understanding Status and where you fit in it.

  • Social Tension and Avoidance - How to mange it effectively

  • High-Status vs. Low-Status Behaviors – How to intentionally exhibit behaviors that show your internal confidence to raise yours and other’s social status.

Beliefs - Transforming Your Life from Here Forward

  • Reframing Social Situations to Improve Your Belief System – mental pattern shifting to enforce your new behaviors and decrease what gets in the way

  • Secondary Payoffs and Thinking Errors – how what you think helps you can actually get in your way

  • Transition to our alumni community and a life of awesome possibilities!

Approaching

  • You will discover the easiest rejection proof approach by accessing what we call the innocent opener.

  • See social opportunities all around you with environmental openers

  • Effortlessly shift from casual connection to deeper relating

Body Language - Behavioral change for a new life.

  • Body Language – the hidden communication channel we are all participating in and how you can harness it’s power.

  • Habit Design – How to make new behaviors stick

Self-Awareness-Understanding and Managing Yourself in Social Situations

  • Voice – Speaking with your true voice to attract and connect with others

  • Behavioral Preferences & how you adapt to your role(s) in life

Assertiveness - Living life on your terms

  • Advanced Body Language – Understanding what you are currently communicating non-verbally and how to read others

  • The Art of Assertiveness – Clearly and confidently communicate what you really mean….to get what you really need and want

Rapport-Creating Connections and Building Boundaries

  • Conversational Agility – Being able to talk to anyone, anywhere, at anytime…..when you want to!

  • Empathy Generator – Quickly developing a deeper connection with others

Strangers to Friends to much more…

  • Approaching Others – The first ten minutes of an interaction shape your relationships

  • The Social Approach – How to meet who you really want to connect with wherever you are, from bars or parties to dinners, networking events or company mixers

Humor - Turning Life into a Social Playground

  • Advanced Humor Techniques – How to turn daily interactions into fun opportunities for humor while putting yourself and others at ease

  • Reframing – Bringing positive and fun energy to your social dynamic, so others want to invite you to all their functions and people love being around you

  • We go DEEP into humor. You will receive the best training in the world about how to make people laugh WITH you… never AT you

Magnetism - Influencing Others with your

Irresistible Charm

  • Charisma – Attracting who and what you want

  • Establishing Irresistible Personal Presence – Expressing interest, attraction and desire…while maintaining your sense of self and earning respect from others.

  • Storytelling and the Power of Metaphor to Influence Others – one of the most effective ways to get people on your side and help others understand your perspective

Style - Make Sure Your Outside Matches Your New Inside

  • You can’t just to a style makeover and think it will change everything, but you also can’t change everything and NOT change the way you look

  • Define you new look so you can attract the people who are a good fit for you personally, professionally and romantically

  • Understand the rules of style then break them, make it your own.

What people are saying?


What We’ll Cover

Status - Breaking Down the Social Hierarchy and Understanding Status and where you fit in it.

  • Social Tension and Avoidance - How to mange it effectively

  • High-Status vs. Low-Status Behaviors – How to intentionally exhibit behaviors that show your internal confidence to raise yours and other’s social status

Beliefs - Transforming Your Life from Here Forward

  • Reframing Social Situations to Improve Your Belief System – mental pattern shifting to enforce your new behaviors and decrease what gets in the way

  • Secondary Payoffs and Thinking Errors – how what you think helps you can actually get in your way

  • Transition to our alumni community and a life of awesome possibilities!

Approaching

  • You will discover the easiest rejection proof approach by accessing what we call the innocent opener.

  • See social opportunities all around you with environmental openers

  • Effortlessly shift from casual connection to deeper relating

Body Language - Behavioral change for a new life.

  • Body Language – the hidden communication channel we are all participating in and how you can harness it’s power.

  • Habit Design – How to make new behaviors stick

Self-Awareness-Understanding and Managing Yourself in Social Situations

  • Voice – Speaking with your true voice to attract and connect with others

  • Behavioral Preferences & how you adapt to your role(s) in life

Assertiveness - Living life on your terms

  • Advanced Body Language – Understanding what you are currently communicating non-verbally and how to read others

  • The Art of Assertiveness – Clearly and confidently communicate what you really mean….to get what you really need and want

Rapport-Creating Connections and Building Boundaries

  • Conversational Agility – Being able to talk to anyone, anywhere, at anytime…..when you want to!

  • Empathy Generator – Quickly developing a deeper connection with others

Strangers to Friends to much more…

  • Approaching Others – The first ten minutes of an interaction shape your relationships

  • The Social Approach – How to meet who you really want to connect with wherever you are, from bars or parties to dinners, networking events or company mixers

Humor - Turning Life into a Social Playground

  • Advanced Humor Techniques – How to turn daily interactions into fun opportunities for humor while putting yourself and others at ease

  • Reframing – Bringing positive and fun energy to your social dynamic, so others want to invite you to all their functions and people love being around you

  • We go DEEP into humor. You will receive the best training in the world about how to make people laugh WITH you… never AT you

Magnetism - Influencing Others with your

Irresistible Charm

  • Charisma – Attracting who and what you want

  • Establishing Irresistible Personal Presence – Expressing interest, attraction and desire…while maintaining your sense of self and earning respect from others.

  • Storytelling and the Power of Metaphor to Influence Others – one of the most effective ways to get people on your side and help others understand your perspective

Style - Make Sure Your Outside Matches Your New Inside

  • You can’t just to a style makeover and think it will change everything, but you also can’t change everything and NOT change the way you look

  • Define you new look so you can attract the people who are a good fit for you personally, professionally and romantically

  • Understand the rules of style then break them, make it your own.

What people are saying?

How It Works

The skills we teach work for everyone because we respect the diversity of our clientele (culture, family of origin, sexual orientation, age, spiritual or political beliefs or socioeconomic status.) 

The curriculum balances instruction and interactive discussion with peer feedback and many hands-on exercises that are practiced both in the safety of the class and out in the real world. 

That’s because mastering Social Fluency is just like learning to play a sport or musical instrument: to become socially fluent, you have to practice!

Social Fluency also offers opportunities for learning even after your course is complete through regular live events you can attend all around the country. 

We customize our training to fit each participant’s personality type and stated goals and have highly certified and experienced trainers who are very effective at doing this. 

This step-by-step “learn-by-doing” approach produces behavior change more quickly and permanently than just studying theory, reading a book or talking about it will do. 

We encourage classmates to discuss and practice their “homework” together in between sessions if possible. That way the lessons really stick – and instructors sometimes join class members on such field trips and always offer their availability for check ins between classes. 

Plus, we promote ongoing social media interaction - which allows alumni and instructors to share insights, information and experiences. Our instructors are available long after class is over and you have the ongoing support of the whole Social Fluency community.

How It Works

The skills we teach work for everyone because we respect the diversity of our clientele (culture, family of origin, sexual orientation, age, spiritual or political beliefs or socioeconomic status.) 

The curriculum balances instruction and interactive discussion with peer feedback and many hands-on exercises that are practiced both in the safety of the class and out in the real world. 

That’s because mastering Social Fluency is just like learning to play a sport or musical instrument: to become socially fluent, you have to practice!

Social Fluency also offers opportunities for learning even after your course is complete through regular live events you can attend all around the country. 

We customize our training to fit each participant’s personality type and stated goals and have highly certified and experienced trainers who are very effective at doing this. 

This step-by-step “learn-by-doing” approach produces behavior change more quickly and permanently than just studying theory, reading a book or talking about it will do. 

We encourage classmates to discuss and practice their “homework” together in between sessions if possible. That way the lessons really stick – and instructors sometimes join class members on such field trips and always offer their availability for check ins between classes. 

Plus, we promote ongoing social media interaction - which allows alumni and instructors to share insights, information and experiences. Our instructors are available long after class is over and you have the ongoing support of the whole Social Fluency community.

Our Offerings

(Depending On Your Package)


2 month / 5 month / 12 month

  • Weekly modules that are released on your particular schedule

  • Bi-weekly group coaching calls at 5pm PST and 10am PST these are recorded if you are not able to attend.

  • 1:1 sessions with various coaches

  • Online mastermind group for support and feedback

  • Live drills workshops for behavioral integration

  • Unlimited access to a coach for any questions that come up throughout your journey

Wishing you the best in your fluency journey,


Devon O'B Ash

Our Offerings

(Depending On Your Package)


2 month / 5 month / 12 month

  • Weekly modules that are released on your particular schedule

  • Bi-weekly group coaching calls at 5pm PST and 10am PST these are recorded if you are not able to attend.

  • 1:1 sessions with various coaches

  • Online mastermind group for support and feedback

  • Live drills workshops for behavioral integration

  • Unlimited access to a coach for any questions that come up throughout your journey

Wishing you the best in your fluency journey,


Devon O'B Ash

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