Great Providers Don’t Have Great Sex

We get caught up as men, qualifying what our sex life SHOULD be based on criteria like:  

I’m a great provider, a great dad, a great guy.  

Instead, start qualifying your sex life with the correct data.   

What is your quantity and QUALITY of your sex life?   

Don’t understand this? Think about it like this:  

Men also go on and on about how hard they work.  

Who cares.  Your work ethic and ability to perform are fantastic but I know very hard working men that don’t make any money at all.  I used to be one of them.  

They should be qualifying their “hard work” with results. The desired outcome. How much money do you actually make for your efforts?  

When I learned this, I was able to start to focus on what actually worked to get Kathryn back in the game again.  

This is what allows you to focus on the skills you need to actually achieve your desired result or outcome.  

While men sit in their pain, blame their wife and justify why she should want sex and why she should want him more because _________(fill in the blank)  

Do what I did instead:  

She wants me more now because_________  

She wants sex for her now because__________  

She has needs and I fulfil them because___________  

The quantity and quality are there because__________  

No matter what you do in life, you need the correct data to actually tweak, perform and achieve.  

Your marriage requires the same set of skills.