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Introduction: Why Lifecycle Marketing Exists (And Why It's Often Misunderstood)

Lifecycle Marketing is, in the most basic definition, a set of communications between a brand and its customers from the moment the brand gets in contact with them to the moment they stop being in contact. Many marketing methods have vastly different kinds of operations and best practices, so some of them naturally get lumped together as a focus, while others don't. For example, paid social often gets split away from email and SMS marketing because of who they're talking to and how communication habits and platforms differ. (Getting good at email marketing or using an ESP is historically very different from understanding how Meta ads manager works.)

Most brands understand that they should be talking to people differently, based on the channel they're using. And of course, they'd be right. Some channels are more pointed to new customers who have no idea who you are, while others are pointed more to customers who raised their hand and signed up to hear what you have to say. However, most brands also neglect to think about all these channels from a customer's point of view. As a result, they miss out on understanding just how much people appreciate the clarity of unified, evolving messaging.

Effective lifecycle marketing is not just about what channel a brand is using to talk to customers. It's a revenue system — it's the combination of all channels a brand is using to send and receive messages to customers, all coupled with the types of messages they receive, how those messages change and evolve over time, and how those messages relate to revenue during the customers' journey from when they begin to know the brand and onward. And lifecycle marketing becomes a revenue system by treating the entire customer journey, from awareness to advocacy, as a continuous, interconnected process that fuels the brand's growth.

As paid customer acquisition methods (think Meta ads, Google ads, etc.) get more expensive and platform behavior gets less predictable, lifecycle marketing has gone from being a "nice to have" to a core part of a brand's marketing arsenal. The brands that don't treat it as such keep having to chase ROAS spikes that last a few days. (And, ironically, the content pieces they burn through in that effort often end up being great material for other forms of lifecycle marketing — like how educational short-form videos for social media ads can be what email subscribers always wanted to see in a brand email.)

This guide breaks down lifecycle marketing the way it actually works in practice.

What Is Lifecycle Marketing?

Lifecycle marketing is the practice of guiding customers through stages of value perception (you can also say value realization, brand appreciation, etc.) by communicating to the customer with relevant messaging at the best moments across the channels the customer is available on.

The goal is not engagement for its own sake. The goal is to increase the amount of money the customer spends with the brand over the lifecycle of the brand-customer relationship (customer lifetime value, or LTV) by helping customers get the understanding they need and the outcomes they want faster and more consistently.

At its best, lifecycle marketing:

• Responds to customer communication, even shaping things like product offerings and customer service based on customer feedback

• Treats communication as educational, not solely transactional or promotional

• Optimizes for long-term relationships and revenue, not short-term clicks

And lifecycle marketing is not:

• A collection of automated flows

• Limited to email or SMS marketing

• Something you "set and forget"

Tools enable lifecycle marketing, but they are not the strategy.

The Modern Lifecycle Marketing Stages

Most lifecycle diagrams (and most people's thoughts about it) end at "retention". That's why teams get stuck. They think "okay, the customers aren't churning that much. Mission accomplished, right?"

A more useful lifecycle marketing mode looks like this:

1: Acquisition

This is where attention is earned and expectations are set. Usually, customers/viewers who don't know what the brand is learn about it and get intrigued. But acquisition isn't just about traffic, it sets the expectations that the rest of the brand's marketing has to fulfill.

The most common mistake here is optimizing for cheap clicks without considering downstream value and what customers will be looking for, thinking about, or considering later on.

A solid success sign here would be attracting customers who understood what they bought, why they bought it, how it works, why it works, and are passionate about it. Customers like these typically already told their friends and are already beginning to be advocates. Hopefully the product fulfills its promises, but even if it doesn't, a good lifecycle marketing strategy can make customers more forgiving and actually increase trust over the long term if the product wasn't an abject failure.

2: Activation

Activation is when the customer (post-purchase) takes their first meaningful interaction with the brand after a purchase. Common events like this mean registering a product, downloading an online manual after a purchase, even asking about shipping information after a product was shipped.

The most common mistakes here: sending customers promotions or upsells straight away after they've made a purchase.

The signs of success here: customers quickly experiencing and expressing a product's core value, getting automatic product shipping updates to customers, low numbers of customer support tickets after a purchase.

3: Onboarding

Onboarding is when a brand more deeply introduces a customer to a product or service they have opted into (includes purchases as well as lower-commitment actions like a simple free sign-up). Onboarding usually includes actions like educational series that help customers understand what they bought, welcome series that walk customers through the features they have available to them, or introductory parts of a course to help customers get into a more prepared frame of mind for the product or service they're about to receive.

The most common mistakes here: Not onboarding it all, or overloading customers with information without good-enough guidance.

The signs of success here: Minimal customer service ticket requirements, or customers complimenting the brand on their welcome or onboarding content.

4: Expansion

Expansion is about deepening relevance and causing users to engage further with the brand, their products, and the context around them. Expansion is the stage that happens after onboarding or activation, where the customer is ready and able to use the product or service. During this stage, brands talk to the users more often and continue layering on information and useful context about the product or service.

The most common mistakes here: Immediately cross-selling without context; asking for feedback too soon without giving the user adequate educational information; only touching on basic information when trying to educate users.

The signs of success here: Customers forwarding brand content to friends; users replying to content asking for more information or asking for other email addresses to get subscribed to mailing lists.

5: Retention (Also Includes Reactivation/Winback)

Retention is the stage where users decide to express loyalty to a brand based on the information and context they currently have. In the retention stage, brands can ask customers to subscribe, buy again, or take other revenue-driving actions with the brand—but these actions are based on the previously-set foundation of information, education, and context built in the expansion and onboarding stages. The Retention stage also included Reactivation/Winback efforts, where we send targeted, relevant messaging to customers who may be falling off.

I consider Reactivation/Winback part of the Retention stage because they tackle the same problem—ensuring that users value the brand or product enough to stay with it. If the retention stage is handled and built properly, there wouldn't be a reactivation problem because the only customers churning would be those who absolutely have to and won't be reactivated anyway. Those who were on the fence or have weaker reasons for churning wouldn't, because of how highly they value the brand and product.

The most common mistakes here: Bombarding customers with discounts, reminders, and an overload of time-sensitive content; using generic offers throughout the customer base.

Signs of success here: Customers returning because they want to, not because they're nudged; customers asking for unique share links so they can get credit for getting others to buy; customers joining a loyalty program and quickly advancing; targeted re-engagement campaigns based on why users disengaged.

6: Advocacy

Advocacy is the "final" stage of the customer lifecycle, where they become champions of the brand and not only appreciate the brand and products for themselves, but promote them for others. This is a crucial and prized stage to have your customers in since customers' words have a stronger promotional effect than marketing messages directly from the brand.

Most common mistakes here: Asking for referrals before the customers realize value in the product; asking for referrals too early in general (for example, before the customer receives a physical product); poor customer service preventing customers from reaching the advocacy stage; not educating customers enough, missing opportunities to move them into the advocacy stage; neglecting to illustrate why or how the product works as well as it does;

Signs of success here: Customers voluntarily sharing or recommending products to others; automated flows are set to encourage sharing after customers trigger certain conversion events; robust points and loyalty programs.

Lifecycle Marketing vs Traditional Campaign Marketing

The main difference between these two is that traditional campaign marketing is channel-driven, while lifecycle marketing is system-driven.

Traditional campaign marketing is focused on one channel, it starts and stops, optimizes for channel-level metrics (think CTR and open rate), and treats customers as parts of static segments. Many, many brands do this and think they're doing lifecycle marketing. They're not. They're probably moving in that direction, but they're definitely not there yet. As a whole, the industry is not quite there yet—just look around at how many people and brands encourage "segmentation". Segmentation is the bare minimum.

Lifecycle marketing is focused not on the channel, but on each individual recipient. If you read the other post about Meta's Andromeda Update, you'll notice that their updates have been pushing their algorithm to make exactly the same shift! The lifecycle marketing foundation is not something that is limited to brands and channels—entire ad platforms have been adopting it too.

Since lifecycle marketing is focused on individual recipients rather than groups/segments or channels, they run on different signals. The messages are more personalized. They're more helpful. They're more timely. And they're received more positively by users. When I check internal data at brands I work with, the email campaigns that make the most money per recipient and get the most engagement are always those that go out based on events or actions the users did instead of being sent only based on segment membership.

Lifecycle Marketing Channels (And Where Teams Go Wrong)

Channels are not strategies. They are execution methods chosen by the strategies.

Email

Email marketing is the backbone of most lifecycle marketing programs (and it's also often confused with lifecycle as a whole—countless email marketing staff are actually lifecycle marketing staff but are unaware of it).

Email is as crucial as it is because it supports long-term education, behavioral logic, and scalable personalization.

Common mistake with email marketing: treating email volume as success. It's not, and often the best email marketing programs consist of very few emails but with such great timing and targeting that they have an outsized effect on the recipient.

SMS

SMS is becoming a secondary backbone of lifecycle marketing as users' attention shifts from email inboxes to phone text messages. SMS is both high-risk and high-leverage. If it's used well, it accelerates momentum and engagement. If used poorly, it erodes customer trust.

Common mistake with SMS: Overusing it compared to email marketing and replacing email strategy with the urgency of SMS. Many professionals don't understand that the urgency levels SMS messages come with change the purpose of the messaging. Less urgent messages are suitable for email, while more time sensitive and urgent messages are acceptable on SMS. Your customers are people with limited attention, limited bandwidths, not piñatas that dispense cash the you message (read: whack) them.

Paid Media

Paid media channels don't stop at acquisition. Lifecycle-aware teams use paid media to do a few things—specifically to reinforce onboarding, re-engage high value users, and support the expansion and retention stages.

By controlling the audiences and having good connections between CRM data and your paid media platforms, you can direct paid media to send relevant, helpful messages to customer as they move through the lifecycle stages. For example: to reinforce onboarding, brands can run specific videos to users who bought but haven't completed their onboarding or received all of their onboarding emails yet; to re-engage high value users, many platforms allow you to target users likelier to be high value—to make it a re-engagement campaign, start by excluding the more recently active users; to support the expansion and retention stages, you can make campaigns targeted to users who may have to consume more content to realize more value from the product (Carv does this marvelously with their education-heavy skiing content).

Common mistake with Paid Media: Neglecting to connect CRM data with paid media platforms like Meta, Twitter/X, or Reddit and others.

On-Site and Product Messaging

Your website and product experience are part of the lifecycle, whether you're aware of it or not. Messaging here should also be linked and relevant.

Common mistake: optimizing landing pages independently from lifecycle intent.

Lifecycle Email Marketing: The Backbone of the System

Lifecycle email marketing works because it scales relevance.

Core lifecycle email categories typically include:

• Welcome and orientation

• Post-purchase education

• Behavior-based follow-ups

• Re-engagement and winback

The difference between average and elite email programs is segmentation, event-based campaigns, and sequencing, instead of copy tricks.

Your emails should satisfy questions like:

• What does this customer need now?

• What’s the next value step?

• What friction can we remove?

Lifecycle SMS Marketing: Amplifier, Not Replacement

SMS cannot replace email marketing, and should support lifecycle progression instead of trying to shortcut it.

Effective lifecycle SMS:

• Reinforces high-intent moments

• Complements email, not replaces it

• Respects consent as a strategic asset, and as an engagement amplifier

Common mistake:
Using SMS to force urgency before value is established.

Short-term gains often come at the expense of long-term LTV.

How Lifecycle Marketing Strategy Is Actually Built

Strong lifecycle programs usually follow a consistent process:

1. Map customer value moments by stage

2. Identify friction, drop-off, confusion, and what drives customer actions

3. Define the goals per lifecycle stage in terms of customer actions and results for the brand

4. Assign channels intentionally, and decide on messaging that fits each channel

5. Build measurement before automation

6. Iterate based on revenue and retention data

Actually building the flows comes last, not first.

Lifecycle Metrics That Actually Matter

Vanity metrics hide lifecycle problems.

Lifecycle teams should focus on:

• LTV by cohort

• Time to second purchase

• Revenue per recipient

• Stage-to-stage conversion rates

• Retention curves over time

Opens and clicks are campaign diagnostics, and not for measuring lifecycle marketing outcomes.

Common Lifecycle Marketing Mistakes

A few of the most common lifecycle marketing mistakes are all about underestimating what the customer is going through and misunderstanding what they may need.
Some of these mistakes include:

• Treating lifecycle as “post-purchase only”

• Over-automating without segmentation

• Letting tools dictate strategy

• Optimizing channels in isolation

• Measuring engagement instead of value

Most lifecycle failures actually aren’t technical. They’re conceptual, and it's because it's rare to see people get the big picture and build an end-to-end lifecycle marketing program that pulls together all of the channels for all of the recipients while giving them messages that are relevant to each one of them.

How Lifecycle Marketing Evolves as Companies Scale

Early stage:

• Focus on activation and onboarding, because hitting the ground running will be massively important for LTV. It's the most crucial part of lifecycle, and has the best ROI further into the future. If this foundation isn't nailed, almost nothing else matters. (Ever got a good email from a brand you lost interest in 3 years ago? It didn't matter much, did it?)

• Automate as much of your lifecycle strategy as possible, but base it on a bedrock of manual insights. It's better to let humans (rather than AI) comb through the segments and events, and decide what stages customers are in and what content they should receive.

Growth stage:

• Continue to segment by behavior and source. Most brands only segment by behavior and completely neglect to consider how the source of the customer impacts their experience with the brand.

• Invest in lifecycle ownership: build teams that can spend time and attention on elevating every stage and segment's experience of lifecycle content across email, SMS, paid social, and more. Sometimes, lifecycle teams don't have enough oversight on the platforms they have unique perspectives on. That often happens at larger organizations and is one reason why older, more legacy brands don't have robust, effective lifecycle marketing execution despite having solid branding.

Mature stage:

• Cross-functional lifecycle strategy: Lifecycle teams should have integrated pods across brand, paid media, and be able to monitor and lead lifecycle strategy and asset creation in tandem with other teams.

• Advanced measurement and experimentation: Mature brands should know what events customers are taking throughout the lifecycle stages and be able to build messaging and trigger campaigns from each event—including actions like payments, video watch time, page views, and many more. Platforms like Braze are marvelous at this, and you can read about choosing ESP or CRM tools that are capable of this here.

Lifecycle complexity should scale with the business—not ahead of it.

Lifecycle Marketing as a Competitive Advantage

Lifecycle marketing compounds quietly.

While competitors fight for cheaper clicks, strong lifecycle systems increase margins, stabilize revenue, and create defensibility and predictability that customer acquisition methods like paid social (and even paid search) can’t match.

Most brands underinvest in lifecycle not because it’s ineffective—but because it requires patience, structure, and systems thinking.

Those that get it right win over time.

Final note

Lifecycle marketing isn’t about sending more messages.

It’s about building a system that helps customers succeed, and allows revenue to follow naturally.