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Life coaching to transform heartbreak into strength

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I'm a certified sex and relationship coach with 10+ years of experience working with men who've mastered everything except intimacy. I understand high-performing men because I grew up surrounded by them, brilliant, capable, emotionally intelligent men who were disconnected in their intimate lives. I weave together somatic practices, nervous system work, and embodiment coaching to help you reclaim what's already yours: your aliveness, your desire, your capacity for depth.

What You Can Expect:

This isn't therapy. This isn't performance coaching.

This is the work that changes how you experience intimacy—in your body, in your relationships, and in yourself.


Heal the Blocks to Intimacy

Your body is trying to protect you from old wounds you were never taught how to heal. The fear of being "too much." The fear of not being enough. The freeze response. The ache of wanting connection but not knowing how to let it in. We work with what's keeping you stuck—not just mentally, but in your nervous system.

Restore Your Capacity for Pleasure

You'll learn how to soften, open, and stay present with sensation, desire, and emotional truth without collapsing or self-protecting. Your body will remember what it feels like to actually receive—touch, attention, desire, love—without immediately moving into performance or provider mode.

Reconnect to Your Erotic Intelligence

We'll clear the shame and unworthiness that's keeping you locked down. You'll reconnect to your sensuality, your hunger, your aliveness. Not what you think you should want—what you actually want. This is about bringing your desire back online in a way that feels grounded, powerful, and alive.

Cultivate Nervous System Safety

So your heart, body, and sexuality can expand into deeper intimacy and higher levels of pleasure. You'll learn that surrender isn't loss. That softening doesn't mean collapse. That you can let go without losing yourself.

Learn to Speak Your Desire

And be met in your truth. We work on expressing what you want, what you feel, what you need—without apology, without performing, without shutting down. This is emotional intimacy work that creates the magnetism, confidence, and presence that generates real connection.

Tailored to You

This isn't one-size-fits-all. We work with your specific patterns, wounds, and desires. Some sessions we talk. Some sessions we work somatically with your body. Some sessions we explore power dynamics, kink, or edge in a consent-rich container. It's responsive. It's custom. It's designed for you.

Ongoing Support

You'll have access to me between sessions. Embodiment practices. Real-time guidance when patterns come up. This isn't just a weekly check-in—it's a devoted container where you're held every step of the way.


This Works If You're:

Ready to show up with devotion, presence, and willingness to go deep

Single and navigating dating, in a relationship wanting more depth, or reigniting intimacy in a long-term partnership

Willing to look at your patterns honestly and do the uncomfortable work

This Doesn't Work If You're:

Looking for quick fixes or surface-level techniques

Not ready to feel your body and emotions

Expecting to stay comfortable while transforming

Danielle Aubrey Smith

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